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Voyeurism: Why Some People Love To Watch Their Partners Have Sex
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Why would my boyfriend allow his friends to watch us having sex?
I do have one piece of advice in determining whether this is a good choice for you: To have something to look forward to? I say move lesbian babysitter youporn to next week and see how that feels.
The key is to be honest about your desires and your boundaries, and to push yourselves a little outside your comfort zone but not so much that it feels more like a test of your will than having fun.
Also, you said your wife asked you to suggest things, but did you ask her for suggestions?