Thank you for this advice!. It is not something that should be taken lightly. In areas with lots of single Mormons of dating and marriageable age, the Church has established singles wards.
I get looking ahead, but it seems like you are very unhappy with the way things are now. And there are questions and lessons that dual-faith couples face that zero-faith or single-faith households do not.
We have 2 school age children. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be.
If you are all sealed trannies having sex naked, you will be together forever in the Celestial Kingdom.
I'm not afraid of long distance, nor am I afraid of moving to follow him for med school, residency, fellowship etc.
These insane hours are wearing on me and I fear what has happened to so many I know will start to happen to us. He totally blew me off and said "blah blah blah" and it was so early in our relationship that I was taken aback and didn't push the issue then and there.